Kṛṣṇa never deals roughly with any of His women. He is a man. Women deal roughly with other women. So if you deal emotionally roughly with women, that's called a woman, not a man.
God made it, and this is the way God likes it. God likes to come home and have His women behave like this. That's why He made it like that. That's why He made the śāstras like that, that's why He made the culture like that. Because this is what